Coaching

 

My old SATNAV

It’s amazing how quickly the highways and byways of our environment change. It all got too much for my old SATNAV. So much so, that last weekend I finally took the plunge. I was just completely fed up with the constant hassle of map updates and subscription costs! Finally, it was the last straw, the battery gave up the ghost. I had to declare they had got me this time. It takes a lot for an honorary Yorkshireman to open his wallet, but it seemed to make financial sense on this occasion. 

As I was telling this story to a very good friend of mine, it occurred to me that her listening is the best way I know of making sense of my own map. JaneJane has a much wider vocabulary than my TomTom, and she speaks multiple languages. She’s a brilliant listener too. Rather than giving instructions and telling me to ‘hang a right’, ‘take the second exit’, or ‘turn around’, she rather invites me to make sense and think through situations by just ‘her listening’. It works like magic.

That’s really quite cool.

I guess I’m learning to just listen to myself more when I want to make sense of myself and the world around me. At least that’s what I am trying now. Knowing that Jane is still listening is a great help. Somehow, the instructions of old seem much less relevant as I discover my own path. 

And my new SATNAV? I did purchase an upgrade, or so I thought. Perhaps it was just me or perhaps I was just expecting too much. It’s just not always what it’s cracked up to be. ‘You have arrived.’ ‘I know. I’ll carry my own bags!”.